Physical punishment of children is a common practice in the United States, with more than 100,000 students receiving physical punishment in schools each year. Spanking, a form of physical punishment, is often viewed as a necessary part of child-rearing in the US, but its effects are not without consequence. A lack of understanding about the concept of spanking, a lack of regulation, and the potential for abuse make it a concern for many experts.
What spanking legislation exists worldwide?
Around the world, 68 countries have banned the hitting of children in any form, including spanking. This movement began in 1979 with Sweden’s ban on all forms of physical punishment, including spanking in any setting, and including in the family home. The pace of change quickened in the early 2000s when more countries adopted similar laws. For example, the legal language of countries like Nepal rests on an emerging definition of children as rights holders similar to adults and as humans worth protecting from harm.
US policies toward spanking
Each state in the U.S. has its own child abuse laws, and all states, tribes and territories aim to protect children from abuse. However, all state laws also allow parents to hit their children if it does not leave an injury or a mark. A typical example is Oklahoma’s definition of child abuse and neglect, which includes an exception that permits parents to use ordinary force as a means of discipline, including spanking, using an implement like a switch or a paddle.
- Types of physical punishment allowed by US laws include paddling, spanking, and striking with a switch or paddle.
- US laws often allow for parents to use physical punishment for minor infractions, such as not wearing clothes or not completing homework.
- Some states have banned paddling in schools, while others allow it with parental permission.
The impact of spanking on children and parents
Research shows that spanking has negative effects on children’s behavior and development. Spanking has been labeled as an “Adverse Childhood Experience,” or ACE, which is an event that causes poor health outcomes over the span of one’s life. The practice of spanking also affects parents, putting them at risk for the escalation of physical punishment that leads to abuse.
- Parents who spank their child have the potential to abuse them and be caught in a legal and child protection system that aims to protect children from harm.
- Research shows that spanking at a young age increases the chance of involvement by Child Protective Services by 33%.
Is spanking considered the same as hitting?
The term “spank” conceals the concept of hitting and is so commonplace that it goes unquestioned, despite the fact that it is a grown adult hitting a person much smaller than them. The concept is further concealed because hitting a child’s bottom hides any injuries that may occur. Types of hitting that are categorized as spanking have narrowed over the years but still persist.
How do US adults view spanking?
People in the United States generally accept spanking as part of raising children, with 56% of U.S. adults strongly agreeing or agreeing that “… it is sometimes necessary to discipline a child with a good, hard spanking.” However, there is a lack of a consistent understanding of what constitutes a spanking, and the definition of spanking is unique to each family.
What does research say about spanking?
Research shows that spanking has negative effects on children’s behavior and development. Spanking seems to work in the moment when it comes to changing or stopping the immediate behavior, but the negative effects are hidden in the short term and occur later in the child’s life. An abundance of research shows that spanking causes increased negative behaviors in childhood, lowers executive functioning for children, and increases struggles with mental health and substance abuse in adulthood.
What are some resources for parents?
When choosing a discipline method for your child, consider the following questions:
– Is the expectation of your child developmentally accurate? – Can the discipline you choose grow with your child? – Might there be another explanation for your child’s behavior? Some recommended discipline methods include:
- Additional chores and responsibilities
- Apologies and explanations
- Difficult conversations and problem-solving
Is spanking children good for parents?
Research suggests that hitting children is not good for parents. Parents who hit their kids may be unaware that it influences their frustration in other relationships. Expressing aggression recharges an angry and short-tempered internal battery that transfers into other parts of the adults’ lives. Practicing calm when with your children will help you be calmer at work and in your other relationships.
Conclusion
The practice of spanking remains a contentious issue in the US, with many states allowing physical punishment in schools. Despite the global trend towards banning physical punishment, the US is slow to change its laws. However, with a growing awareness of the negative effects of spanking and a shift in public opinion, it is possible that the US will eventually move towards a reduction in spanking.
“Spanked: How Hitting Our Children is Harming Ourselves” by Christina Erickson is a book that delves into the topic of spanking and its effects on children and parents. Erickson argues that the practice of spanking is not only harmful but also perpetuates a cycle of violence and abuse.
As the US continues to grapple with the issue of spanking, it is essential to consider the complex and multifaceted nature of this practice. By examining the historical context, the impact on children and parents, and the shifting public opinion, we can work towards creating a society that values and promotes healthy and positive discipline methods.
The practice of spanking is a complex issue that requires a nuanced and multifaceted approach. By recognizing the harm that spanking can cause and working towards a reduction in its use, we can create a safer and more supportive environment for children and families to thrive.
Ultimately, the decision to spank or not spank is a personal one that requires careful consideration and a commitment to the well-being of both the child and the parent.
